is there a chance of reconciliation
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My ex girlfriend and I have been apart now for 1 1/2. We've been through some things together. During our relationship, we discovered that there was an STD involved and it hurts us in the beginning. It hurt because we were in love with each other. There wasn't any cheating involved just something that was dormant. It came up and she and I were hurt about it. Of course I was blamed and for a while, I took the blame. I love her to death still its just that she has these moods when she's cool and the next minute not so cool. We still communicate. Is this a sign that there is still a chance for us to reconcile? I know if she didn't care about me, she wouldn't be talking to me now. Am I right or wrong. I know its gonna take time for her to trust me again and all. Help me if you can. I know there is something still there.I want to know what is it she wants or need. I haven't asked her anything about us and things work well. I think I'll keep it like that for a while.
You are right... things are going well so don't mess with them.
Time heals all wounds, so if there are feelings hurt just keep talking with her nicely and spread healing balm on her hurts. Tell her you care about her so she is aware of it and so you are clear that she understands where you stand.
If you are gentle with her and communicate well, share your feelings, and are affectionate (not physical) then the odds are good she will return.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com