Trying to move on
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
This girl and I dated for about 8 months, everything was fine untill she broke up with me. I later found out that she cheated on me, and hooked up with one of my friends afterwards. This is all very aggrevating. I told her she doesn't deserve my friendship, and basically I don't want her in my life. I know I'm going to run into these individuals again, but I can't help but wanting to get some type of payback after being hurt. I miss the times that we had. I just need some constructive advice to move on. I know things will never be the same between her and I because I tried that. How should I act when I see these people again, because I don't want to react with anger and make more problems for myself.
Don't show your anger.
Instead don't interact with them at all. They will understand and know they deserve it. That will be plenty more effective than bumping heads with them.
Move on with your life with full flags flying... every day you waste thinking about this is subtracting from the joys of living.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com