I can't solve this relationship problem
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i was with my bf almost 8 months, along the way..so many things happen between us. He keep thinking i am lying on him about my pass..i admit i did not let him know everything on my pass..and i ve done a lot of mistake along my way and i feel pain when i review it. All i wan to do it just forget about everythings and start my new life. What he think is he wan me to responsible on what i was done previously. And he start not to trust me anymore.He said he does not know me..he need to judge me who am i based on my pass..Please help me..coz i do not know what to do on him alredy..
It is your decision what you say about your past.
Do not let him pressure you into saying things you don't want to. Everyone has the right to privacy and that includes what you did in the past.
Tell him in a forceful but sensitive way that what is in the past is in the past and you do not plan on making your life an open book for him to read.
Everyone has made mistakes in their life and everyone has the right to keep certain things to themself.
If he won't accept this then dump him.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com