I want my ex-boyfriend back
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
the reason i broke up wiz my ex- coz we had long distance for 2months when he went bk to his country but we stayed in contact. Since we r bk to school again, i found out he has another girl when he was in his country for 2months, so, we broke up finally!on the nite that i found out he cheated on me. i told him , i better go and sleep in my bedroom, he asked me to stay,so i stayed but i was crying all nite.he was holding my hands all nite but i was jus pretend i didnt know.but i hav broke up wiz my ex now a month already.
I went asked him to come bk and invited him for dinner 2nite ago to celebrate his birthday..i wrote him a card and gave him picture frame that has only our pictures.he told me he cant b with me,but he has beening thinking whether should he come bk or not?we went out togetehr for almost 2yrs.If he doesnt love me, why he still wear our couple ring on left hand?and has our pictures on his bedroom door?it's so hard for me to stop texting him,but since 2nites ago he told me clear that he doesnt want to b bk wz me i stop talking 2 him, but we r living in the same building but diff unit..at the same nite, i sent him a message tat i still cares and like him, but now i lost this guy already, he replied me back that you dont lose me,we can b friend right? and he asked me to go to eat breakfast for the next morning,but i didnt go.
one day at school jus before i invited him for dinner, i was sitting the comp lab at break time, i saw him walking to the same comp lab but there's another comp lab where his friends was there,but he chose to come to the same comp lab as me and sit beside me. i was trying to ignore,but he started conversations.
what should i do to make him bk wiz me again?i realised that i love tis guys so much, i never spend my time and stayed together wiz anyone like this,,,please advice me,,,
The first step in getting him back is to be his friend.
He won't be your b/f without being your friend. So if he asks you out for breakfast then you should show up.
He still shows signs of caring for you. He still wears your ring and your picture on his bedroom door.
Ask him over for dinner. If you can make a dinner for him that would be even better than just going out for dinner.
Tell him you still care for him so he is sure and so you are sure he knows.
Don't wait for him to make the first move. You have to do it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com