what to do now?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
ok obviously i want my ex-back
i'm 16 and so is the girl
it started on a saturdayafternoon a friend came over and
he brought his niece with him and we were in love at first sight so we talked a little
that night i went to a party with my friends and well she was there to. around midnight or so we were kissing (we both had a bf/gf) then her bf saw us he's 22 he was pissed off and runned off
we were together for 7 weeks and she broke up because i had troubles of letting my ex go...
but she understood and gave me time a month later i still didn't dump her and she got pissed and gave me another shot
but i messed that up to
now we are friends and she still likes me that's what her friends tell me (her best friend is the sister of another friend of mine)
she got back together with her ex but he really treats her bad and yesterday he called her and dumped her so i comforted her things were just going great again between us
and there was a chance we could get back together
but i tested if she still likes me and she found out and is more pissed than ever and i really don't know what to do anymore
i really love her she soo amazing but she doesn't believe a thing i say anymore : (
You need to rebuild the trust you two once had.
The way to do that is to share your feelings with her (in a gentle way) and talk a lot. Say nice things to her like she is pretty and dresses nice if she does. Think of true things to say that will make her feel good about herself and about you.
Keep being friends with her and she may find you attractive again.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com