Is there still a chance?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I have always had a crush on this girl who is a realy close friend to me. Recently I asked her out and she said she would think about it. I know she gets confused and has mood swings all the time so when she answered me 3 hours later on the internet I wasent sure if she meant it. While online she suddenly said "...ok" and i asked her what the "ok" was for. Then she said "No." and logged off. I got completely confused... Was that her answer? i thought... it obviously was. So her answer was no, but i'm not the type to just let go... I promised her I wouldnt bug her about it and I wont. But I dont know if theres still a chance. When I asked her I played all the right cards. I asked her while we were alone at night and we had just taken a walk together and sat down to talk. I got her in a comfortable position before i asked. On top of that I seemed like a nice guy to her and my characteristics were suitable to the relationship. Like honesty, intelligence and all that. But she said "no." So i'm left confused.. and maybe a bit hurt, I'm still trying to figure out why she declined. Were still good friends but I realy want to know if there is a chance she would want to go out with me.
She is the one who knows the answers to your questions.
Talk to her again and see what more you can find out about her feelings for you. She probably wants to tell you too so she can feel better about it.
If she won't go out with you right now, at least you could remain friends until she might change her mind.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com