Girls NERVOUS IS IT BAD?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
OK This has happened to me about 4 times and i have a feeling it will continue if i dont know how to act when it happens. OK There are times when im talking to a girl that is single good looking around my age and that i think i have a chance with(inwhich the girl has the same thing in mind) theyd be a bit interested but more quiet with me than any one around. then whenever its just me and the girl alone talking about simple things they get nervous and then it makes me nervous knowing that i make them nervous and then after that they kind of avoid/ignore me at all costs as if id done something...why? does she like me?? what should i do? is this bad? is there a remedy?
Try to listen to what you are saying to these girls and determine whether your conversation is too quick, too loud, too person or impersonal.
Think of interesting topics such as friends, teachers, school, music, sports, hobbies, family, etc. so you have something easy to talk about.
Ask your buddies how you come across in conversation... maybe they have some pointers for you. Or even ask the girl in question and see if she will give you a straight answer. The last takes some guts... but why not.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com