What to do
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
HAVE been split up nearly 2 months after a awesum 11 months together where both of us were very much in love. She had a fright after 6 months on where it would go so we got through that and got even stronger. just after my birthday i didnt see much of her and she was again afraid. She split up with me to be on her own to concentrate on her and her son and being with friends. She stated that she loves me and missed me but she is taking a massive risk and she would not find anyone better than me. her freinds and family went mad on her decision. its been nearly 2 months i have seen her once and just said hello. i have no closure at all as i think she will come back i would do anything to get her back. should i contact her or should i just leave it and get on with it. i have not heard from her at all and no clue to how she is feeling.
Ask her if you can call her once a week for 15 mins just to see how she is doing. This will give you the contact you need and the space she needs.
When you talk to her, be cheerful and don't dwell on your relationship.
Perhaps you will grow back togethere again or at least get some closure on what happened.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com