Getting Her Back
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Me and my ex had a great relationship, until I went through the typical male phase of "Oh I can't get enough of this making out stuff". So I constantly made out with her, as in we never did anything but make out. She would come over and we'd make out, that's it. Eventually she didn't want that, she wanted to go out places and have fun. Sadly I tried, but fell short. Wel after we broke up, I left that phase and had several major changes, all these chnages though, turned me into the guy she wanted all along. I talked with her near the end of August and she said she could tell I had changed. While she did reject my offer for a second chance, she said "it's because I'm not ready for another long term relationship yet, but that's it not you." In other words, she would easily go back with me if she was ready for a long term relationship again. My problem is that I'll be leaving for college soon and when I come back home she'll have left for college. I want me and her to try our love and relationship again, just to see if we were right for each other this time, now that we've matured and I've made those chnges. But how do I let her know this and make her understand how important it is to me? I mean I don't want it to end up as me and her never dating again and never knowing what it would've been like the second time around. I want to know, really badly! So how do I talk to her about this and get her to understand it and agree to a second chance?
Show her the note you sent above and I'm sure she will consider giving you a second chance. You have written it very well.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com