Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
well I have a best friend that is a girl I have liked her for sometime and a few weeks ago I told her that I was 'starting to develop feelings for her' other than a friend she then told me she liked it the way it is and she doesnít feel the same way. so I respected that and got on with my life but recently she has been acting weird like she is craving attention from me as more than a friend. However, as I draw away she tends to insist. now I found out that there are 2 other guys that like her and she doesnít know what to do with them because she apparently likes them but Iím not to sure on the status of that right now, also recently she asked me if I still had feelings for her and I replied with I donít know, it depends on my chances and when I asked why she asked she just said she was 'curious' and ever since then she hasnít spoken to me much so I was wondering I should throw my hat into the ring once more? On the other hand, forget about it? This is why i am confused is she telling me something I am not seeing?
Also sorry for the long question, I hope it is not too much of a bother.
You gave her a good answer when you told her you weren't sure about your feelings for her and it depended on your chances.
Now the ball is in her court and she will have to choose.
If, thinking it over, you decide you do like her then it isn't too late to tell her.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com