Am I stupid to believe he wants to be with me?
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I've been dating a guy for 2 1/2 years. We bought a house(in his name) supposedly for me and for 8 months we lived there together. We broke up just recently because I could not get his ex-girlfiend out of our hair. He asked me to leave. I was happy at the time because he has a child with this woman and takes responsibilty for antother that isn't even his and the mother uses these children as pawns all the time,If he doesn't do what she wants she tells the kids that daddy is being mean and then he gives in a does what she wants...so while I was living there and as he continued to let her beat on our relationship -it wore me down and I started treating him like crap. He asked me to leave and I did...now it's killing the both of us that we're apart but I think he moved her in the house and took on- caring for the kids full time while she visits him on weekends--meanwhile he's calling me and emailing me all the time about what he should do and how he can fix the problem and ew can be together again...what am I to do? I understand that this woman is the mother of his child but does he owe his life to her...minus happiness? Am I stupid to believe he loves me
Suggest to him that you move back in.
His ex can have the kids on the weekend if that's what she wants, otherwise figure out another way to handle custody.
She sounds like a jerk and it seems he realizes that.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com