Boyfriend accuses me of things I don't even do.

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i've had a past of making my bf paranoid. i've never cheated, but i always made myself to come off as someone who was suave enough to cheat. but i've stopped since. i almost lost him too many times because of my lies. but even after 2 years of being nothing but faithful, all seems well, but it takes just one little reminder for to set us back a few stages. he still thinks i'm up to something. it's getting to the point where he's accusing me of talking to someone else just because i took so long to pick up my phone (my samsung vibrates 5 times before playing the ring tone, plus it was 1am and I was asleep, but "didn't sound like i was"). i feel that no matter who started the fight, i always end up apologizing. everytime i bring up the issue that i feel like less of a person because I'm always worried about him freaking out, he takes it as i want to spend time with my exes.

After he hung up on me today (not like my clogged up voice had much to say anyways), I feel like I've had enough. I'm actually ready to leave him, because making me bawl like a baby at work is not cool. I just feel like he's not listening to my concerns. Did I warrant this because I always made him paranoid in the beginning of our relationship?

i love him and want to make this work, but he's really pushing my limits. Help! Advice
Show him your email to me and let it speak for you.

Don't let a misunderstanding ruin your relationship.

Good luck! George

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