Should I end the affair?
Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I have been having an affair with a married man for two years. We worked together and were both married. He chased me for three months before I gave in. Needless to say I am divorced now and he is still with his wife. He says he won't leave his kids. I love him with all my heart, but this situation is never going to change. I deserve better, but I can't seem to let go of him. Every time I try I just go back. He says I can't live without him. Yes, I can live without him I just don't want to. He was fired from his job, so the time we spend together has even gotten worse. How much time does it take to make a phone call? What should I do?
My advice is to continue the affair.
Why deprive yourself of some of the most enjoyable experiences of your life.
It will come to an end when his wife finds out (and you know she will.)
At that point have the dignity to drop out of the picture so that he can mend his family and live a happy life thereafter. You may want to move to another city to make the break more complete.
If you love him as much as you do, you should agree to what I am suggesting.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com