i want him back ?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i broke up with my boyfriend recently after six months of going out .I think it was my fault cause i was too clingy , i realized he was the person for me for life . when we started he aid give me one year to a year and a half then we will get married. we are in the same job together, we were in the same department and then i shifted to another department . he liked me from the start with lots of gestures, looks and etc, but he didnt talk i loved his looks words so i decided to message him because he took to long and he immediately reacted and this is what he told me from the start one year to a year and a half . we started talking on the phone regularly then going out then all of a sudden we fought once for somethin minor because of me i was talkin about somethin at work and i didnt tell him the complete story, he didnt like it so he fought and closed the phone it wasnt my first time. I am always like this sometimes i act clumpsy after a day i called and told him do u wanna talk to me or not he said we will talk later. I called after he didnít , he has a lot of pride, I cried and said sorry we were back together, however I realized that he stopped saying special things for some time . Then after wards, work wanted us to go to a seminar together we went together. We fought there and I got mad and called him night and day. He didnít answer then he said you are crazy and I donít wanna be with you .He said the way you react to problems I know I reacted wrongly but I lost it and I was scared I might loose him .Even before we fought he said things like didnít u get bored, me and you are in the same job .Then I asked do u want me in your future he said no I started crying and begging I called for days and begged he kept on sayin no , we will never get back again leave me alone forever .I asked for a second chance he said no , people learn from mistakes he said I am not for you and you are not for me .i stopped now still hopin what can I do I want him back although I know he is very stubborn .
You seem to be stubborn too !
After all, he has made it very clear that he doesn't want to be with you but you keep asking him.
How about asking him over for his most favorite home made dinner? Most men have a hard time resisting their favorite food. He just might say yes and then you can see where things go.
Don't bring up your relationship, just have a nice quiet evening together.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com