She wants kids NOW
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
We were togather for about a year. She left her husband of 8 years to be with me. She moved to my house but she was in my rental apt. I tryed to move in with her several times and she would not let me. I didn't have a job yet and she was a bartender. She started seeing another guy there and I let her becasue I was the only guy she has dated since the divorce (he was just a friend). Then her sister found a trailer for cheap. She asked me if she should move out and I said yea because she was still dating that friend. So she moved out and figured out she wanted me. Now she is 35 I'm 28 and I knew she wanted kids. She wanted me to quit my new job and move in with her. I told her no she needed to move back to my house and live with me. A week went by and she was giving the (were not meant to be speechs). We had a fight 1st real fight and I left. Well it wasn't but 5 days and she was right back with her backup plan. We had 2 great dates since then but she still says she don't trust me. She has been playn games with me and she wonders why I didn't give it my 100%. We had sex a month later cause the friend pissed her off. That went great and I thought she was mine after that. Now she won't return my phone calls. I'm the backup guy now what do I do?
First accept the fact that she might not return and if she does, she may not be dependable.
Since she won't talk to you that limits your chances dramatically.
Perhaps you should write her a letter and express yourself she might respond or at least talk with you on the phone.
Not a whole lot else you can do.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com