I know she doesn't like me but...
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi, it's been some time since I last wrote to you... and I need help with a girl that I like since october of the past year... well, even though you might not remember my story, I think it's too long to write here, so I'll just jump to where I am now.
This girl I like (wich some time ago told me she didn't like me) sometimes treats me very well, for example, yesterday we spoke on the phone for almost an hour twice, and then she asked me if I could go to her home to help her with an issue with her internet provider, wich I solved and we had dinner together, played video games and watched some tv show (I was alone with her and I had to go before her dad came home because she didn't wanted him to imagine things)... but today, she hardly spoke to me in school and in msn, she closed our conversation window a lot... she was somehow cold with me.
This isn't the first time this happens
I've told her in the past that I didn't like her anymore (even though I love her and I did that for her not push me away from her like she did once) and I'm sure that I haven't let my emotions show so that she couldn't think that I like her.
We're suposed to be friends, and I don't understand Why she does that to me... I'm reluctant about speaking to her about that because I'm afraid that she might get away from me.
Can you help me with this?
Thanks in advance
She is acting very strangely.
Ask her out for dinner or a walk in the park or by a river.
This might help her show her real feelings for you.
Be prepared for rejection because she is already not treating you nicely.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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