Can't live with out this girl....

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
Can't live with out this girl....

I have been friends with this girl for the last 2 years. we met on a photo shoot
I'm a Photographer and she is a model.... I'm 31 and she is 43 years old

Too weeks after the shoot she toke me out to dinner to say thanks for the shoot,
We ended up on her bed watching a movie, we both fell a sleep and ended up
Snuggled up to each other all night...

From that point on we would go out to dinner about once a weak (with me paying)
We would talk about life, work, And SEX just never about us, I called her Honey
She called me Hun Or Jeffeee, when she went in for surgery I was the one who stayed
With her, When Her back Is killing her I'm the one she calls yet she was dating another guy
When they broke up I was the one she cried to when my dad died she cried with me...

A month back I told her That I loved her and that I wanted her to be my Girl friend
That is when I got the "I Just Want To Be Friends" line...

We do everything ells that boyfriends and girlfriends do (Relay I end up doing them)
We kiss, We huge, we snuggle & spoon All night long, And its not like I want to have sex with
Her just for the sake of having sex.... Sex is sex and that is not what I want
All I want is the most beautiful girl in the world to love me as much as I love her... Advice
My advice is for you to suggest to her that while you are just friends that you want to be a friend with benefits (including sex.)

Perhaps you have proposed sex to her before, but it didn't sound like it. Many women would consider it curious for a guy to see her for two years, to be so close, yet not make sex a priority.

Hope this helps! George

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