I need some help
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
I am having trouble talking to girls why am I always shy I feel empty
inside I can't talk to girls it's like I was born without that part of the
brain or something can you please give me some ideas that might help me
talk to girls
Sincerely Daniel R
First of all, you have been sending your questions into the wrong address. You need to go to http://www.romanceclass.com and then go down the screen until you see a section called Personal Advice. Follow step by step and you will be able to submit your question. I am answering this, despite the difficulty, because you have tried so hard to get through.
So, you can't talk to girls, your brain doesn't work, your tongue is numb.
You are not the only one in this situation, probably half the guys have trouble talking to girls and maybe the same is true of girls who can't talk to guys. But girls seem to be braver.
A lot of it is practice plus bravery. Practice requires bravery, but each step along the way requires bravery too. Girls know this and appreciate your being brave. Are you going to be brave or are you going to wimp out until you are 50 years old and still haven't talked to a girl.
Of course, you are going to be brave! The first step in talking to a girl is say hello. It's not hard but it takes practice. You don't want to come across as a wimp so do this (pay close attention to what I'm saying... each step of it.) When you are in the hallway and are about three steps away from her, look her straight in the eyes, say in a loud (not too loud) clear voice "Hi" plus her name and give her a nice big smile. If you don't know her name find out or if you have to walk up to her and say "Hi my name is Daniel," "what's yours?"
Pay attention to what people's names are and always say hi to them when it makes sense. Say hi to guys to, that's even more practice. Eventually you will have a network of people you know and some of them will become friends. This is true of girls. Girls are probably more eager to have male attention than guys are. Give them the attention they need and they will like you.
For more tips on how to talk to girls see:
Good luck! George
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-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com