Is She Cheating?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Is she cheating when i'm not around?
Well, only SHE knows the answer of this. Nobody else knows (except the other guy, if she is cheating). The fact that you're asking me means you don't trust her to ask her. And the fact that you don't trust her means there's something SERIOUSLY wrong with your relationship, because all relationships are founded on honesty and trust. If you don't have trust in a relationship, you can't rely on each other, and really, that's what a relationship is all about.
So sit down with her. Ask her. Explain how much she means to you. Explain that a relationship with someone cheating is far worse than no relationship at all. If she wants to be with someone else, it's better that you know so you can find someone for YOURSELF that will truly be devoted to you.
If she admits it, then you can either work it out with her or find someone more deserving of your love.
If she insists she is NOT cheating, believe her! Many relationships are broken up because of jealous partners that drive away their boyfriend/girlfriend because of their own insecurities. Don't let your jealousy drive your girlfriend away, if she says she is true. Believe in her and work on your relationship.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com