Have her feelings changed?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I have this friend who I really like and may be in love with. I told her I like her I even asked her out about 8 months ago she said no but we decided to be friends. We still hang out. We have gone to ballgames, had a picnic, went to dinner-all alone. So my question is does she like me. I dont do this kind of stuff with any of my other girl friends. Should I talk to her about it and ask her what her intentions are. She is in college right not as am I but they're about an hour apart. I severely doubt she wants a boyfriend at this stage in her life. Could her feelings have changed since she turned me down 8 months ago. I asked her out 5 days after she got out of a serious relationship. Could that have played into her reasoning. Thr problem is I feel like crap every time I see her. SO I want to know what my next move is. Should I talk to her? SHould I just man up and kiss her and see what happens? PLease Help. Tell me what you think she wants out of our relationship.
The way to find out how she feels is to ask her.
Take her out to a romantic restaurant for dinner, wine, music, etc. At the end of the evening when you are enjoying your dessert or after dinner drink, tell her honestly how you feel about her and ask how she feels about you.
If she's not ready to commit, ask her if it is ok for you to kiss her sometime.
She is likely to say yes to that.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com