When should I make a move

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have been with my boyfriend two and a half years and have been engaged for 5 months. we live together own animals together and were practically married. He suddenly decided I am too controlling and he doesnt think he has the feeling he should have for me if we are going to get married. He says we are through, but I want to know what I should do now. I want to talk to him and find out what is really going on but people keep telling me to wait or to call and I dont want to make him mad. What do I do?

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Let him know that you still care for him and are waiting.

Ask him if you could call him once a week for 15 mins just to see how he is doing. Don't talk about your relationship just be cheerful.

He certainly won't feel like you are controlling him... and you will be learning how to be less controlling.

Expect this to go on for a month or so before making any decisions.

Good luck! George

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