I love a girl I haven't met
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I am 30 and Single, Working as a Jr. Engineer in India. We have our office on 3rd floor of a building and a girl (28) works in a different company on 2nd floor. She is very cute. Always has serious face. I am very much attacted towards her/ I like her/ and I try my level best to see her every morning while entering into the building so that my day could be the good day. She does not know all these. I have not spoken to her till date. Only name is known to me. Also heard that she belongs to a very big and rich person (father) but she did not liked her father's activities in politics and left him. she stays alone. this shows that how different is she.
I am mad in her love.
how to express my feeling to her? and even if i express- what is the necessesity that she would accept my love. i cant lose her.
please increase my courage level with your words.
OK, first, you are not in love with her! Being in love with someone means knowing ALL about them - the bad, the good, the up, the down - and accepting ALL of it. You have a *crush* on this girl and want to know more about her. But only when you know more about her and spend lots of time with her can you then begin to love her.
So you need to start spending time with her. Talk with her on the elevator. Chat about the weather. Ask her about the latest news story. Get to be a normal person in her life that she chats with. The more you talk, the more you'll get to know her. You could then offer to have lunch with her sometime, as a casual friendly thing to do, to talk more.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com