Why is she so complicated?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Here goes nothing. So theres this girl I work with and have been getting closer to for about 4 months now. I started noticing her signals and acted on them becoming better and better friends with her. Shes very playfull with me at work always touching or joking around with me at work. Within the last few months she has been inviting me over to her house to hang out with her and stay the night. She lives with her parents and they like me and let me stay on the couch and she makes me stay all weekend with her. I have feelings for her and she says she has the same for me but is scared of a relationshp because she always messes things up. So were still just friends and alot of the time she says things completely oposite to how she acts with me. Shes a great girl when its just us but around our fellow workers she swears up and down were only friends like shes scared. Idk what to do I really like this girl and she shows me that she feels the same but is scared to make anything offical. Is she really into me or am I just a fool?
As she grows more comfortable with you, she will become more committed to your relationship.
Apparently she has had bad experiences in the past, so you need to be gentle with her. Communicate with her a lot, share feelings and that will build trust. Be affectionate to her... compliment her and be tender.
Pretty soon she will attach herself to you and you will be happier.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com