Is he a friend or more?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I know a friend very deeply for 6 years, he cares too much, always phone me, does nearly every thing I think about. he does too many things no other friends could ever thought about doing it, my problem is that I don't know what is that actually and, how can I differentiate from what he is doing between love and friendship if he did not declare.
You're acting as if there is a gigantic wall between love and friendship. Hopefully most friends love each other! And hopefully most lovers are also best friends. What you really seem to be asking is if this is someone you should date romantically and maybe think about marriage with, instead of being friends who care deeply for each other.
That of course is completely up to you! Obviously your friend does care very deeply for you. So start going out together more, start spending even more time together, start talking about even more serious issues. As you get closer and closer, and doing things like hugging hello and goodbye, it should become clear if your friend resists or welcomes these changes.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com