Should I talk to the girl I like again to see if maybe we can go out?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
3 months ago before school ended, I saw this beautiful girland I was kind of nervous about going up to her and start getting along with her to see if we can go out. Well I decided to talk to her after one of her friends told me she liked me. I asked her name one morning and we started to talk to each other during lunch because that was the only time we saw each other besides after school. well after a week we were getting along just fine but then suddenly she started changing with me. She avoided me once in a while and threated me differently. I didnt know what was going on so I wrote her a brief lettter to see what was the problem. She answered my letter and told me that she didnt want to see me or talk to me again because she heard something about me that she really didnt like. Well I never knew until the last week of school. She stopped talkin to me beacuse one of her friends told her i just wanted to have sex with her which isnt true. I didnt want to tell her that it wasnt true because skool was ending and there was no point. Her friend told me she wasnt mad at me anymore. So now I dont know if I should talk to her again or just get over her(which I dont want and it would be really hard) After school I've seen her stare at me and when im like behind her she is looking backwards several tiems as if cheking me out without me noticing or maybe im just assuming this things. Well the point is that I'm kind of afraid she'll reject me maybe thats why its taken me so long to talk to her. shes a great girl and I dont think she is over me because maybe now she thinks that she made a mistake or sumting or maybe she might be over me please help me out she is a really important girl. I usually dont like to ask girls out just mess around unless she is an incredible girl that I am willing to take seriously as a girlfriend, in this case she is that girl. I would realy apreciate if you could answer me as soon as possible
You need to talk with her again and explain.
Tell her that it was a lie that you only wanted to have sex with her. Tell her that you only try to get close with girls that really impress you as being special.
It already seems that she is interested in you, so why not give it a try?
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com