I really want her back
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Me and my ex had been dateing for 6 months everything was great we were always doing fun things togeather. Always laughing and smileing we both had deep feelings for each other at one time. Then all of a sudden she started telling me that she feels like she has not done anything with her life and that she wanted to break up while she figures out what she wants. So we broke up and then that same day that night she called crying and said that she was sry and that she really did want to be with me, but she wanted to take a break from seeing me and talking to me for a week to see how she felt after that. Well the following weekend we went out and had great time but ended up ending things again. She told me it was not me it was her that she is weird and just needs time to figure out her life. She assured me that their was no one eles and that she still had deep feelings for me. So I waited two weeks and asked her out to the place we had our first date. The whole night I acted as if everything was great, we had a really good time when we got back to my house she started to cry and climbed in my arms telling me sahe did miss me and she still likes me a lot but that she just needs time and space to figure out her life. What should I do?
Sometimes people need time and space to really feel like themselves again.
Your girlfriend is going through this now. Give her as much time as she needs because if you don't things will go wrong with you two.
Instead of trying to woo her back, concentrate on being her best friend and see what develops from that.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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