Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
me and my ex(i will call him C) dated for about 9 months 7 of wich were happy...
i hated my stepmom so i ranaway, and that caused alot of problems between me and him. i was hanging out with an other ex (we will call him J) at the time because he helped me have a place to stay, i ignored C when he told me to go home, wich was stupid of me, i wish i would have gone home when he told me too. but then one day at school he broke up with me. i was really depressed that weekend and got drunk out of my mind. and then J asked me to party with him so i did. he told me crap like he still likes me blah get over C, and i was so depressed at the time that i just let myself go, not conserting the concences. so me and J had drunken sex. the following night C called me at a friends house and he was crying, begging for me back, and i began to cry, and told him i couldent and that i was sorry. he knew what happened, and i kept saying iam sorry iam soory, finally i dropped the phone and ran outside, and J was there with his girlfriend, so he chaced me and stopped me. he told me to get over it, but i couldent. I loved C. and i knew C loved me too. We tried to work things out after that, but the relationship failed. the last day we were offically together he told me someday we would be together again, when i looked into his eyes that day, i knew he loved me. he didnt like me drinking or smoking pot, but i did anyways. within a week he had a new girlfriend, he told my friend it was to get over me. he called me a slut in school, and told everyone my secrets that i told him. he hated me, so i moved to another state. now we sometimes talk on the phone and myspace. and i still think about him everyday, if one thing is on my mind its him.
i cry everyday, and sleep with the sweater he gave me.
i wish i could have him back more anything, and i want to go back to the state where he is. he has had a few girlfriend sense then. i have had one, and all i could think about was how much i wished it was C.
is there any hope of me getting him back???
Next time you are on the phone with him, ask him.
Find out if he feels there is any chance for you two to get back together if you return to his state.
His answer will tell you what to do.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com