I don't get it?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Wow, I've been going back and forth for about 7 years. We have a 4 year old daughter together and he keeps saying he wants to be with me and want me as his wife and our life together. We aren't really even together but I feel super attached to him. Oh and our families can't stand each other and his hates me and mine hate him!! He lives in Puerto Rico going to college for about 3 years. Everytime he's visiting here (miami) everything is pretty normal...We hang out and if his parents aren't around he hangs out with our daughter (a "pretend family" When he's in PR he doesn't call or email (not even our daughter)... How do I move on, ALREADY? I'm 24 and full of life I don't want to waste my life anymore... Please help me help myself!!!!

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He is taking advantage of you.

Tell him you are going to move to PR to be with him. When he says no, then break up with him. If he says yes, then maybe things will work out.

In any case, let him know you are ready to move on and then do it.

Good luck! George

-- from George
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