I'm not sure what to do
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
So I have been with this guy for about 7 months now. I have already tried to end it with him but then he started saying things like "I am going to get in a car accident and die." So I am scared that if I do not break up with him right he might try to hurt himself. I really feel like he does not meet my expectations of a boyfriend, not only physically (which my sound bad) but how he treats me. For example when I go over to his house he sits there on the computer while I am in the other room by myself. Can you please help me?
Call up his mother or dad and tell them you are going to break up with him and share with them his comment about a car accident.
They can make arrangements for him to see a professional counselor to get help if they think it is necessary. Tell them when you are going to break up.
Then break up with him and let him know that you told his parents because you are worried about him. He probably won't like this.
None of this will be pleasant, but you will feel better about the situation if you do it that way.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com