She doesnt want to try anymore and i wish her backVisitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
me and my ex have been together for like 5 months. we live 15 mins away from each other, have same surname and many similar characteristics. the past 2 weeks we argued and fighted a lot and she completely gave up as regards the relationship and decided to quit. i really cried and cried and even she cried because she doesnt want me to get hurt and she told me that she would be hapy if she sees me with another one which hurted me a lot as i love her. i spent like 1 week telling her to think it twice and i promised her that everyhting would change as we both have our reasons. her wrong sides were that she used to shout and hurt me with what she said while mine were that i used to think about myself a bit. she told me that she would NEVER want to go out with me again. we also had past issues regarding the fact that i was a bit shorter than her and she got bored of it but that was past and after telling me that she doesnt want me anymore, that same night she came to me telling me that she wanted me bk. we had really gd times together and for her birthday i spent her an expensive softoy and for me it doesnt have value anymore and i wish her back. Many told me to move and only time will tell..maybe she was not the right one for me. What do you suggest pls? help me pls because currently i have a real big depression. thanks
You should accept her feelings and move on.
There have been enough chances for your relationship to work yet they haven't succeeded. Look for another woman with whom you can be happy. There are lots of women who are lonely and looking for a good man.
You could be just what they are looking for.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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