I want her back so bad, but after a week, she says she loves someone else
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Hi im j (21), me and my ex-girl freind b(19), had been together for alomost three years. We were really good friends before we got together. She had a boy-friend when i met her.We were madly in love and she always said that she wanted to marry me. A month ago, i went to colorado,for 10 days. We talked the whole time i was gone and she said that she, really wanted me to come home. When I got back, it was a little wierd. She wasn't kissing me like usual. I asked her what was wrong and she said that she just didn't miss me like she should have. She broke up with me a couple of weeks after that. This was about a month ago we've seen eachother a few times since then. We fought most of the time. But last night she camr to pick up her stuff, from my house. We just sat, talked and cried. I could tell she was having second thoughts. Then she got cold, and said that we.re not meant to be together and she thinks, she's in love with someone else. But i know she's thinks she might regret this. Does she still love me, and how do i get her back.
Let her know very firmly that you are in her corner and will be waiting for her if things don't work out.
Ask if you can call her once a week just to see how she is doing, with no relationship talk... just chit chat.
This way you can maintain some contact that should help you along.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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