is it ok for my boyfriend to hang out with his ex?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 7 months and we recently moved in togeather. He used to live with his ex girlfriend years ago but she moved to another state to teach. well she has came home atleast 5 times since me and him have been togeather and everytime she comes in he has to be with her the whole time and i am not allowed to hangout with them because she gets mad. he says they are just friends but it just does not feel right when i am allowed to hang out with his other friends that are guys but not her. he doesnt get it and says he is doin nothing wrong. she came in last month and i had enough so i kicked him out. we stayed broke up for a couple weeks and then i finally forgave him then she came in again this weekend and the same shit happened. so i broke up with him for good. i have not answered his phone calls or texts but he really hasnt called that much. i dont know if that means he really doesnt care or what. i am so hurt that it has actually made me sick. Am i over reacting or did i do the right thing. Help a girl out. Advice
You are the one who gets to make the decision.

As a guy, I would say that if I cared about a particular ex enough to want to see her over my current g/f's feelings then I would do it.

The writing is on the wall, he would rather see her than to keep your relationship tight.

If you could talk it out, there might be hope. But that doesn't seem to be the case here.

Good luck! George

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