I'm the other guy

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
There is this girl, that I have realy liked for like 2 years. She is my best female friend, we have alot in common. We are fairly close, we flirt, she shows affection towards me, her family likes me, and I would like to go out with her, the only problem is she has a boyfriend of almost 2 years . I wouldn't care if she seemed happy, but she often seems upset, her family and friends don't like him, and he cheats on her. Yet, after every fight and every time he breaks her heart, she goes back to him.

I don't know if I should tell her how I feel because she has been in that relationship for a long time and I think if I told her how I felt it might change our friendship.

RomanceClass.com Advice
Don't look to break up her relationship.

Continue to be her good friend. Keep up good communications, build up trust by sharing feelings, and be affectionate by giving her hugs and compliments.

Eventually she may become attracted to you.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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