Does He Love Money More Than Me
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Ten years we have been together, I'm 29 and he is 30. We started out as friends and over the years could never stay away from each other. Recently we, he had a sentence to serve for one of the ways income was brought into the house. He did 18 months and I stood right by his side like I always did. He has been home for 9months now and everything seemed great, we had our little tifs here and ther but nothing we couldnt get through. Well now $ for him is an issue he cannot have everything that he wants and he has to work a low paying job and he feels inaadequate. I assured him that we will be fine it will justtake longer for us to get the things we want. He talked to me while he was locked up about playing his baby momma for money, she has a heftybank account,I didnt like the thought of him using her and what he would have to do to get the cash out of her. Though promises of a down payment on a house sounded great. Well he came home and didnt want to do it he wanted to be with me and says he still does, dont get me wrong i love him but i am so hurt becasue now after money issues he has moved out of here to go live with her to get the money. He has been gone for 6 weeks but he still has a key to my house and is here every other day and calls numerous times a day to tell me he loves me and he will be home by the end of this month.He admitted that they have had sex which i assumed and assured me he was very safe.Anyways I have begged, pleaded, and even demanded him to return home. He is still gone and tells me to relax it will be over soon. Why have I allowed myself to be a part of such madness and chaos. He took me to the family reunion out of town for the weekend and even came and we spent all day at a theme park,while living with her and he continues to want to have sex with me. I am so torn because one part of me wants to believe he left for the money for us but i also wonder if maybe he really does like her and he doesnt plan on comming home. I am confused and really do not know what to do? Help
Set a time limit on him.
You can't just go on forever with this plan.
He should have gone along with you when you suggested waiting for the good things you want. Now he is stuck in the middle of a scheme which, who knows, end him back in prison.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com