I want to break up but we're living together...
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Me and my boyfriend have been together for going on a year and almost 3 months and our relationship has been steadily going downhill.
After the first 3 months of our relationship the sex life just disappeared, having sex once a week is really slow for me...
then it slowed to once a month, now we haven't had sex in over 3 months. He isn't affectionate with me, and hasn't kissed me in a week, and he makes me feel guilty to want to hold his hand.
He's been looking at dating sites on the computer and i dont know why he wont go ahead and break up with me, i guess i'm just hoping he will change.
Should i quit waiting and move on, but if so, i can't afford to live here by myself and have no where else to go, what should I do?
The odds are good that you two are going to split up.
So, you should start looking very hard for friends or friends of friends who need a roomate. Once you find one then move in with them. It's got to be better than what you are dealing with now. And he is likely to dump you anyhow if you don't do it first.
It's better to take the initiative and get prepared than let it happen to you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com