Tickling, Wrestling! Should I be Jealous?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I've been going out with my girlfriend for only a month now. She is independant and very social. We usually go out at a friends house to party. When we're there she likes to pinch, tickle other guys & wrestle with them, usually friends of hers. I know that she would never cheat on me, but it makes me uncomfortable and even jealous that other guys are touching her. Then I think about what they may be thinking about, they might have a chance with her and I really hate that.
The fact is that if I talk to her about that, she might say that I'm just being jealous and then we would probably fight about it. And I don't want her to stop having fun. I really trust her, I just don't like it when other guys touch her.
What should I do?
Explain to her that you feel uncomfortable with her extremely flirtaceous behavior around othere guys.
Tell her that tickling, pinching, and wrestling arouse guys and that you don't feel comfortable with her physically arousing guys. Her activities also put ideas into the guys minds and to other onlookers.
It also puts you in an unpleasant spot since part of you feels like you should do something about it and part of you wants her to have fun.
After talking, she may continue doing it but at least she will know not to overdo it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com