IM GOING CRAZY.....
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
heres the deal....me an this girl that i meet on my b-day...
of all days right? well me an her met an clicked. i talked to her for a while.. the we dated fro about a month. no the reason we broke up is because she didnt want a relationship. now were still friends we talk almost everyday. i go over to her house to see her everynow an then.. but theres a big problem. i want her back but her other ex who she dated for almost 2 years is a very jealous person. if i come around her he gets all pissed off.. now ive tried dating other girls to get my mind off her an nothing helps. it seems like i cant picture myself with someone else besides her. now how do i make myself so appealing to a girl who doesnt want to have a relationship? how do i get her back in my love life? even if i told her how i felt i dont think it will help much.. but please give some very good advice for this....thanks.......
You seem to be doing well with her now.
So keep on doing what you are doing. Rome wasn't built in a day.
Show her that you trust her by telling her your feelings. But make sure she understands that you don't want to lose her friendship.
As I mentioned in my last email to you, communicate with her, build up trust, and be gently affectionate and she is likely to grow to care for you more.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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