help me pleeze
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
i've liked this girl for basically since we were little. problem waz she didn't like me until last year. we were goin around and well she broke up wit me. then we decided to give another shot and i asked her for some time then i broke up wit her. after that we decided to go at it again and i broke up her. i broke up wit her cause i jst don't feel secure,i would feel like she didn't like me but after we broke up her friends told me that she really liked me,another thing is i don't know wat to do when she is around and i also get really nervous. we used to be really good friend but our friendship went down the drain we barely speak to each other. wat should i do it's been 6 months and i realize i can't stop thinkin bout her.also i don't feel secure bout askin her out again she waz very special wat i mean she doesn't go around wit jst anyone it has to be someone u know special... 2 guys asked her out and she said no to both of them.
In order to turn this around, you need to relearn how to talk to her.
Start off by telling her how you feel... probably you will say that you are nervous and don't know what to say so some guy on the internet suggested that you talk about your feelings. Then talk about whatever she says. Take everything she says into consideration and respond to it. It may be something seriuos or just a joke... but you have to respond. You can say "Hey, that sounds serious" or "Hey, that's funny."
Just keep your mouth in motion saying what you feel and keep your ears open to listen to what she is saying so you can respond to it.
Keep practicing it and eventually you will catch on.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com