How do I get closer to him?
Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Female
Hi RomanceClass! I really love your advice!
Anyway, I'm a 13 year old girl from Australia.
There's this guy I really like, and it seems like he likes me too, because I always catch him looking at me (and it's not in a bad way! =P). I really want to get closer to him, but I don't even know his name. He catches my train in the afternoons, and i frequently walk past him at the station. Also at the station, we sneak looks at each other, but we're still too shy to talk to each other.
He seems like a really nice guy, but I want to know if it's true. i want to get to know him and be able to talk to him.
One minor problem is that i'm always with my friends at the station and on the train, and i can't find a good time to actually go up to him and say hi. i don't want to neglect my friends just for a guy. but then again, i REALLY LIKE THIS GUY! =D
Thanks so much!
Tell your g/f's that you think he is nice and you want to talk to him.
Ask their advice how to do it so they feel part of the action. Tell them you want to talk to him twice a week and to them three times a week.
Then walk up to him and tell him he looks like a nice person and you want to meet him. Get his name and tell him that if it's ok with him you want to talk to him twice a week and to your girlfriends three times a week. This way he won't be scared that he might be overwhelmed by your companionship.
Ideally this would work out well for everyone. But if it doesn't feel free to write back in.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com