cheating after 2 1/2 years
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 years. About 4 months ago, he met a girl who he intended on just being good friends with(he said she was just a very nice person) but one thing led to another and he ended up kissing her. Now, I know, kissing isn't terrible, but it still hurts. Recently, he felt as though it was necessary to say goodbye to her before she left for college, and to fix things between them two since he hates when people hate him. My trust is already gone and I don't know what to do. I love him too much to let him go after just a silly kiss, but I'm nervous it will happen again.I mean, he was so good at lying and hiding it before that I don't know if I will figure it out again. I just need to know if I should stick around and see what happens or just let go, despite all of the pain
Stick around and see what happens.
Probably nothing will so put that out of your mind if you can.
Don't even question him about it.
Simple kisses should usually be ignored as we are all human.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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