Now What Do I Do?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Okay... So I kind of started this new job and really hit it off with this guy... We became good friends and always hung out... I've known him for at least a good month now and I found myself really opening up to him and he vise versa... One day after we went out with some mutual friends we just so happen to have we went back to his house... Which of course was no big deal at the time because we always hung out at his place... alone... Well that night... one thing lead to the next and we were kissing... The next time we saw each other it was like we were still good friends nothing serious going on... A couple of days passed and it happened again... He knows my whole situation about being a virgin and waiting for the right person... So he said he didn't want to force me to do anything I didn't want to... he really started to grow on me and the next time I saw him... we did it... The next day I felt like "WHAT DID I DO?!!!!" And we didn't talk for two days... when I finally did see him I wanted to talk about what happened... but he pretty much brushed me off... It was very out of character of him... Later that night I went over to his place because and we finally talked about it... He wasn't an ass about it but I pretty much did all the talking and figured he just wanted to be friends because I felt like he was avoiding me... So he pretty much agreed but then we started kissing again... and he just sat there and hugged me... After that I thought we could still be friends... but when I went over to his place and invited one of our friends over because he broke up with his girlfriend... I don't know what was wrong with him but he'd been drinking and was really really rude and made me feel awful... It's almost a week and we haven't really talked at all? I saw him briefly at work and we just said hey... The catch is.. is that I really like him.. and I want to be more than friends... But I really feel like he's avoiding me! I wouldn't have given up my virginty to ANYONE! And I feel like he just played me... WHAT DO I DO??? or HOW DO I KNOW IF HE REALLY DOES LIKE ME? or should I just forget it ever happened because he really did just play me????
Call him up and ask him out for dinner.
If he says he can't ask him when he is available.
If he won't go out with you that tells you right there.
If you go out, you should be able to get a good sense of how he feels.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com