I have no idea what to do
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi, my boyfriend broke up with me about 3 weeks ago after an 8 year relationship. He told me three weeks ago that he wanted some space to think. Then a week later he told me to go ahead and start a new life. ok so I started going out chillin didn't not call him all weekend, He called me that monday to see the kids an excuse he made up I think because he said hi to the kids and ask me to come up to the room. I sat down next to him and he started asking me questions, If I was seeing someone and ask me not to let a male stay in my house because people were going to think that I was with the guy any ways, we ended up having sex. and he has come over with the excuse of seeing the kids and ends up in bed with me. I know he has a girfriend but he tells me that he is not committed to anyone and that he can do what he wants. I don't know if he is taking this girl serious. or he is trying to party after 8 years then try to come back. I want him back and I am confused don't know what to do. I send him sexy text messages and he loves it he hasn't complained, He also had told me that he wanted to date me all over start all over with me so that we can spike up our relationship at the time that we broke up.. does he still want to be with me but need time. He calls at time when I don't call him. Help
If you want him back, then keep doing what you are doing.
It seems like he is gradually finding his way back to you. He probably found out that he likes you more than the girl he is with.
But let him make the moves because otherwise you may drive him off.
One move you could make that might help is to invite him over for his favorite home cooked meal.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com