not sure what to do
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Okay so here is my story. So I started talking to this girl that I was extremely interested in while I was in another relationship. She obviously liked me, but she knew that it would be nothing more since I was taken (the most that ever really happened was some kissing with her but nothing more so I did cheat a little bit). At the time she had been broken up with her boyfriend of 3 years for about 6 months when we started talking. So then we kinda stopped talking because I had my relationship, and she ended getting back with this guy she had been broken up from. A month or so goes by and it turns out that I end breaking up with my now former girlfriend. So then me and this other girl start talking again only this time shes the one in the relationship! We have been hanging out TONS and talking ALOT lately and I am not really sure where to take it from here since she is definately still super into me, but she is back with her ex. I've kissed her on the cheek a few times this past week, but I almost feel bad taking the next step or doing anything more then that. we have a GREAT time when were together and its obvious the chemistry, and its also obvious how bad she wants me, but just like me she has no idea what to do. We have even both mentioned that fact that we are completely puzzled about this situation. I was hoping you had some input for me on this, because I am starting to like this girl more and more and I think I want to be with her, so I am just so confused as to what to do! please help me!! thanks
You need to talk with her more.
What is the desired outcome of your relationship? Friends, friends with kissing, friends with more? Or will she break up with her ex again to be with you.
Getting these issues on the table will help you make progress in figuring out this puzzling situation.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com