he's the only one i want
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
hi, first off i thank you very much for taking the time to read this. lets name him ken. ken and i had been best friends for a year before we started going out. we went out for 19 months already. we were always so in love, so comfortable with each other and we even planned our future. but about half a year ago, i cheated on him and that hurted him really badly. but we got back in the relationship and i was doing my best to work everything out. everything was going fine, until the summer started and it seemed like he started to not care more and more. he goes to a summer school, so i think that's what distracted him and im always home this summer. and this week, he told me he really cant forgive me for cheating on him and it's just really over. but i dont think its because of me cheating really. i just really think he lost the spark or maybe his friends had distracted him from the love. i want to know what i could do for him to come back to me because i'm almost 100% sure that he still has love for me.
thank you for everything.
My guess is that while he was busy all day and you were free that he started worrying about you cheating again.
Whenever you get a chance to talk with him, tell him what you've been up to for the whole day. While it may seem to late for this, it may work to take his mind off of what you are up to.
Try to invite him over for his favorite home-cooked meal or take him out to dinner... the way to a man's heart is through his stomach.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com