i slept with my ex after him being in a 7 month relationship with his new girlfriend
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
me and my ex split up over a year a go now and we were together for 10 months, he met someone else while i was on holiday and when i came home everything had changed so we split up, but he didnt end up getting together with this girl. we carried on sleeping together after our relationship split until 3 days before he was officially with the girl who split us up in the first place, funnily enough, 9 months later. so we'd been sleeping together for 9 month after we split up. They have been together 7 months so far but the past 2 months he has been contacting me, asking to come and see me and talking about our past relationship. He always wants to speak about how good our sex is and how bad her's is and how we connected. we slept together lastnight, in the back seat of his car, in a car park so it would be empty right after his girlfriend had phoned him. I dont know where this leaves me now, i dont know if he wants me back or if we have a chance, if we have no chance i would like to just move on. but whenever we're together or we sleep together it just feels so right. i want him back, and im not sure if he wants me back? him and his current girlfriend split all the time and get back together, so i dont see how he can be serious about her.
You should face up to the fact that he likes her more than you.
Otherwise, why would he stay with her and only use you for sex?
Have a long, honest, caring talk with him and try to figure this out.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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