The Morning After
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
While at a bar last week I hooked up with a guy that I have had an interest in for the past 5 years. We both had a little too much to drink, and he ended up coming home with me and then he took a cab home the next morning.
He said that he would call when he left that morning (which I thought about after the fact and he doesn't have my number), but I am anxious to talk to him and would like to call him. I don't see him very often (once every couple months), which makes it difficult for me to just 'run into him'.
I would like to see if he is really interested in me...what should I do?
If he doesn't have your number, and you have his, I'm not sure why you AREN'T calling him. If you have some sort of strange notion that "only the guy calls", I think that went out in the 1930s. Call him! Tell him you had a good time, that you'd love to see him again. He's probably worried about what you are thinking of the event. Think up a movie you really want to see and ask him if he'd be interested in seeing it with you.
-- from Jenn
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com