I want more but dont know how to tell her
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi, i have just recently stumbled on to your website and found a few of your tips to be rather helpful but not specific enough to me. So ive decided to submit this question.
I have know this girl for close to two years and have become closer friends over the last year more so in the last month or two. I have started to grow feelings for her enough so that i dont think about anyone but her as far as dating is concerned and just think about her a lot in general. I have taken her out to dinner and the movies and even rented movied to watch at her place but all as "just friends". I have honestly considered telling her how i felt until yesterday when we were talking with friends, about this guy that took her out the day before. And how it was really nice to go out with him but he doesnt consider it a date but she does. She said if a guy pays for everything then its a date, even when I take her out she considers it a date but she said that were friends and she knows better than to think of it to be any more than that.
So now im questioning to whether or not to tell her how i feel about her, becuase it almosts seems like she has dismissed the idea of us being more than friends. I also dont really know how to go about telling her either, but thats another issue all together.
Thanks for your help
It is a good idea to let her know before she becomes attracted to the other guy.
Just say to her that you are "developing feelings" for her and you want to know how she feels about it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com