asking a good friend....
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Okay so I have a very good friend that I've recently fallen head-over-heels for, and I've come to the conclusion that I want to ask her out, but I'm not sure how to.
I need to play it cool, she's a little bit crazy when it comes to things like this, and I don't want to scare her away or anything like that.
Here's another thing too though, we've planned a few things together already for the summer that I'd love to do, but then again if I do ask her out and she doesn't feel at all that way about me then this could make things awkward.
I'm just not sure what to do or how to go about it.
Tell her you are starting to "develop feelings" for her but that you don't want to let that interfere with your friendship.
You can tell by her response how she feels about the idea. If she is at all positive, keep promoting a closer relationship. If she is cold to the idea then put it on a back burner for a while and continue to build your friendship.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com