Is it to late to save the love that we once shared?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
We had a great relationship at first we were with each other almost247. I could feel that he loved me and that he wanted me around. I showed the same affection back. NOw we are hardly around each other and when we are we fight. we never touch hug or kiss anymore. I feel like he chooses everything else over me bc he never makes time for me and he NEVER shows me the attention or give me the affection that he once did. he blames me that i broke his trust but he was just making a big deal over nothing.It kills me to remember the love we once had and i want him to love me like he use to and the same 4 me what cna i do???
There are three things that are very important to a relationship.
They are communication, trust, and affection.
You said that affection and trust are now lacking between you and your b/f.
That leaves communication... so have a long, honest, caring discussion with him and try to get to the bottom of the problem. Probably more than one discussion will be necessary.
You should make sure to show him affection and trust so that he understands what you are talking about.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com