My friend's husband has cheated on her!
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I have a friend who has been married for 4 years. About a month ago her husband confessed to cheating on her and that he "has not loved her for over a year" and he is now seeing a younger woman. He was her first "real boyfriend" and they were married at the age of around 22-23.
They have been officially separated for 3 weeks now. I am a reasonably close male friend of this girl. Is there anything that I might be able to do to help her through this but not make her think I'm trying to crack on to her etc? She is understandably devistated and I think she really needs her friends arround her at the moment. Is there any advice or web-links on your site I could pass on to her? Most of the breakup information I have found was for couples who are merely dating, not married!
Your best shot is to go to http://www.google.com and search on
COPING DIVORCE ... there are thousands of webpage with advice on this subject.
You could look thru them and find what you think would be helpful or just tell her about searching google herself.
She will also be feeling that she is unattractive, so don't worry too much about giving her the impression that you are coming on to her.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com